The Way We Live Now · Chapter
XLIII: The City Road explained
Ruby Ruggles has taken refuge with her aunt, Mrs.
What happens
Ruby Ruggles has taken refuge with her aunt, Mrs. Pipkin, in Islington after fleeing her grandfather's abuse. She defends her relationship with Sir Felix Carbury against Roger Carbury's warnings, who urges her to return to John Crumb. Ruby grows disillusioned when Felix refuses to promise marriage, and she breaks with him. Roger visits and advises her to abandon Felix, but Ruby remains defiant, though shaken.
Themes in this chapter
Love vs. Practicality
Ruby's romantic attachment to Sir Felix is contrasted with the practical advice from Mrs. Pipkin and Roger Carbury, who emphasize security and a decent home over passion.
Deception and Hypocrisy
Ruby deceives her grandfather by secretly corresponding with the Pipkins, and later hides her lover's identity. Sir Felix's incognito attire and refusal to commit also highlight the theme of deception.
Gender and Power
Ruby's limited agency is evident: she is subject to her grandfather's violence, her aunt's supervision, and the moral authority of men like Roger Carbury. Her rebellion is constrained by societal expectations.
Characters to notice
- Ruby Ruggles
Ruby is staying with her aunt Mrs. Pipkin in Islington, working for her keep. She defends her relationship with Sir Felix Carbury but is shaken by Roger Carbury's warnings and Felix's refusal to marry her.
- Roger Carbury
Roger visits Ruby at Mrs. Pipkin's house, warns her against Sir Felix, and urges her to return to John Crumb. He speaks highly of Crumb's character and tries to persuade Ruby to change her ways.
- Sir Felix Carbury
Felix is Ruby's lover, seen at a music-hall in incognito attire. He refuses to promise marriage to Ruby, leading to their quarrel and her decision to leave him.
- Mrs. Pipkin
Ruby's aunt, a poor but good-natured widow who takes Ruby in. She gives Ruby advice about marriage and respectability, and later cooperates with Roger Carbury to monitor Ruby's behavior.
- John Crumb
John Crumb is referenced as Ruby's rejected suitor. Roger Carbury praises him as noble and warns Ruby that Crumb will not give up easily.
- Paul Montague
Paul is mentioned as having discovered Ruby's whereabouts and informed Roger Carbury, setting off the chain of events in this chapter.
Key passages
“What’s all the love in the world, Ruby, if a man can’t do for you?”
Mrs. Pipkin advises Ruby that practical support from a husband matters more than romantic love.
This reflects the theme of love vs. practicality and the economic realities of marriage for women.
“If two men have equal pluck, strength isn’t much needed. One is a brave man, and the other—a coward. Which do you think is which?”
Roger Carbury implies that Sir Felix is a coward compared to John Crumb, suggesting that Crumb would not hesitate to confront Felix.
Roger uses this argument to undermine Ruby's admiration for Felix and to warn her of potential violence.
“I never read of such a one in none of the books. No, I won’t. You go your way, and I’ll go mine.”
Ruby rejects Felix's refusal to marry, comparing him unfavorably to romantic heroes in books, and breaks off their relationship.
Ruby's reference to books highlights her romantic expectations and her disillusionment with Felix's lack of commitment.