The Tenant of Wildfell Hall · Chapter
Chapter XVI explained
Helen recounts her aunt's stern advice on marriage, her own confident belief that she can only love a man she respects, and her disillusionment with London society.
What happens
Helen recounts her aunt's stern advice on marriage, her own confident belief that she can only love a man she respects, and her disillusionment with London society. She describes her annoyance with the persistent Mr. Boarham and her relief at meeting the charming and lively Mr. Huntingdon at a ball, which marks the beginning of her fateful acquaintance with him.
Themes in this chapter
Gender Roles and Marriage
Aunt Maxwell's advice and Helen's reflections highlight the societal pressure on women to marry prudently, balancing love with principle and respectability.
Female Agency and Independence
Helen asserts her own judgment in rejecting Mr. Boarham, insisting on the importance of her own inclinations and happiness over her aunt's wishes.
Hypocrisy and Social Judgment
Helen criticizes the artificiality and mindlessness of London society, particularly the ladies, and feels conflicted about her own vanity when receiving male attention.
Characters to notice
- Helen Huntingdon
Narrates her aunt's advice and her own views on love and marriage; expresses her boredom with London society and her irritation with Mr. Boarham.
- Aunt Maxwell
Gives Helen serious counsel about marriage, warning her against carelessness and urging her to prioritize principle, sense, and respectability.
- Mr. Boarham
A tedious, elderly suitor who persistently courts Helen despite her clear rejection; she finds him insufferable and refers to him as 'Bore'em.'
- Arthur Huntingdon
Introduced at the ball as a lively and entertaining gentleman; he rescues Helen from Mr. Boarham's company and dances with her, making a strong impression.
Key passages
“Receive, coldly and dispassionately, every attention, till you have ascertained and duly considered the worth of the aspirant; and let your affections be consequent upon approbation alone. First study; then approve; then love.”
Aunt Maxwell advises Helen to remain emotionally detached from suitors until she has thoroughly evaluated their character, and to let love follow only after approval.
This advice encapsulates the cautious, principled approach to marriage that Helen initially embraces but later struggles to follow.
“I not only should think it wrong to marry a man that was deficient in sense or in principle, but I should never be tempted to do it; for I could not like him, if he were ever so handsome, and ever so charming, in other respects; I should hate him—despise him—pity him—anything but love him.”
Helen insists that she cannot love a man she does not respect, and that her affections are naturally tied to her moral approval of a suitor.
This statement reveals Helen's idealistic confidence in her own judgment, which foreshadows her later conflict when she falls for Huntingdon despite his flaws.
“There was a certain graceful ease and freedom about all he said and did, that gave a sense of repose and expansion to the mind, after so much constraint and formality as I had been doomed to suffer.”
Helen finds Mr. Huntingdon's relaxed and natural manner a refreshing contrast to the stiff formality of other suitors like Mr. Boarham.
This marks the beginning of Helen's attraction to Huntingdon, highlighting the appeal of his charm and spontaneity.