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The Rector and The Doctor’s Family · Chapter

XIV explained

Nettie, impatient with Dr.

What happens

Nettie, impatient with Dr. Rider's passive acceptance of their separation, resolves to take Susan and the children to Australia. Miss Wodehouse suggests an arrangement that would allow Nettie to marry, but Nettie vehemently denies any intention to marry, even suspecting Mr. Chatham's motives. She insists her duty is to the children and prepares to leave Carlingford.

Themes in this chapter

  • Duty vs. Personal Inclination

    Nettie chooses her duty to her sister's children over her own romantic desires, rejecting marriage.

  • Gender Roles and Independence

    Nettie asserts her independence by planning to emigrate and raise the children alone, defying expectations to marry.

  • Family Obligation and Sacrifice

    Nettie sacrifices her own happiness and potential marriage to care for Susan and the children.

Characters to notice

  • Nettie Underwood

    Resolute and impatient, Nettie decides to take Susan and the children to Australia, rejecting any possibility of marriage.

  • Miss Wodehouse

    Gentle adviser who suggests Nettie make an arrangement to marry, but is firmly rebuffed.

  • Susan Rider

    Mentioned as delicate and discussing the journey with the Australian visitor.

  • Dr. Edward Rider

    Nettie scorns him for submitting to fate instead of proposing an arrangement to keep her.

  • Richard Chatham

    Suspected by Miss Wodehouse of courting Nettie, but Nettie dismisses the idea.

Key passages

  • If one must break one's heart, it is best to do it at once and have done with it.

    Nettie believes it's better to endure heartbreak quickly rather than prolong the pain.

    Reflects her impatience with the drawn-out situation and her desire for resolution.

  • Twenty thousand Chathams would not move me. I shall never marry anybody, if I live to be as old as—as you, or Methuselah, or anybody.

    Nettie declares that no number of suitors, not even Mr. Chatham, could persuade her to marry.

    Shows her fierce independence and rejection of romantic expectations.