The Mother · Chapter
The Man's Restlessness and the Quarrel explained
The man, young and handsome, feels trapped by his domestic life and longs for pleasure and adventure.
What happens
The man, young and handsome, feels trapped by his domestic life and longs for pleasure and adventure. He resents his wife for bearing children easily and for not praising him as others do. A quarrel erupts when he buys a blue robe from a pedlar, deepening the rift between them.
Themes in this chapter
Desire and Repression
The man's longing for pleasure and freedom is repressed by his domestic duties, leading to resentment and conflict.
Gender Roles and Patriarchy
The man is expected to work but shirks responsibility, while the mother labors tirelessly and is expected to bear children without complaint.
Family Conflict and Favoritism
The man feels neglected by his wife's attention to the children, and the couple's quarrel escalates over the purchase of a robe.
Characters to notice
- The Man
Restless and dissatisfied, he dreams of joy and adventure, resents his wife, and buys a blue robe from a pedlar.
- The Mother
She works hard, loves her husband secretly, but is angered by his frivolity and lack of support for the family.
- The Old Mother
Present during the pedlar's visit, she comments on the pedlar's barren wife and engages in the bargaining.
- The Elder Son
Eats on, caring nothing for the pedlar's cloth or the commotion.
- Child
The mother's youngest child, for whom she buys a piece of blue cloth from the pedlar.
Key passages
“Here I be, young and pretty and with my luck all in my fingers, and here I be, stuck like a fish in a well.”
The man feels trapped in his rural life despite his youth and charm.
Expresses his frustration with domesticity and desire for escape.
“He was such a one as seemed to save all his good humor and his merry, lovable looks for strangers and for those who were not of his own house.”
The man is cheerful and charming with outsiders but sullen at home.
Highlights the contrast between his public and private demeanor.
“There is nothing like a new summer robe to put joy in a man, and with that ring upon your finger shined and cleaned and your hair smoothed with a bit of oil and this new robe upon you, I swear I could not see a prettier man even in a town.”
The pedlar flatters the man, suggesting a new robe will bring him happiness and enhance his appearance.
The pedlar's persuasion appeals to the man's vanity and desire for pleasure.