The Mill on the Floss · Chapter
IV: Brother and Sister explained
Maggie visits Tom at his lodgings, which are in a house owned by Bob Jakin and his wife.
What happens
Maggie visits Tom at his lodgings, which are in a house owned by Bob Jakin and his wife. The chapter focuses on a tense conversation between Maggie and Tom about her relationship with Philip Wakem. Tom expresses his distrust of Maggie's judgment and warns her against any romantic involvement with Philip, given the family feud with Lawyer Wakem. Maggie defends herself, insisting she has given up any thought of marriage with Philip and only wishes for a quiet friendship. The chapter ends with a partial reconciliation, as Tom softens and allows Maggie to see Philip occasionally at their uncle's house, though he remains skeptical of her resolve.
Themes in this chapter
Family Obligation and Conflict
Tom and Maggie's argument highlights the tension between familial duty and personal desire, especially regarding Maggie's relationship with Philip Wakem.
Gender Roles and Limitations
Tom asserts his authority as a brother and man, claiming to know what is 'right and respectable' for Maggie, reflecting the limited agency of women in Victorian society.
Forgiveness and Redemption
The chapter ends with a tentative reconciliation as Tom softens and Maggie seeks his approval, echoing their childhood bond.
Characters to notice
- Maggie Tulliver
Visits Tom at his lodgings; defends her intentions regarding Philip Wakem; seeks Tom's approval and affection.
- Tom Tulliver
Living at Bob Jakin's house; expresses distrust of Maggie's judgment; reluctantly allows her to see Philip Wakem occasionally.
- Bob Jakin
Now married and living by the waterside; rents rooms to Tom; greets Maggie warmly.
- Mrs. Jakin
Bob's tiny wife, described as a Dutch doll; opens the door to Maggie and shows her in.
- Philip Wakem
Discussed as a potential romantic interest for Maggie; Tom forbids any serious relationship due to the family feud.
- Lucy Deane
Mentioned as wishing for Maggie to see Philip; invites Tom to aunt Glegg's.
Key passages
“Tom's words—that hard rind of truth which is discerned by unimaginative, unsympathetic minds.”
Tom's blunt honesty feels harsh and unfeeling to Maggie.
Narrator's commentary on Tom's lack of empathy.
“I have given up thinking of him as a lover. I am telling you the truth, and you have no right to disbelieve me.”
Maggie insists she has stopped considering Philip as a romantic partner and demands Tom trust her word.
Maggie defends her integrity to Tom.
“I wish to be as good a brother to you as you will let me.”
Tom expresses a desire to be a supportive brother, but on his own terms.
Tom's conditional offer of brotherly affection.
“You're always in extremes; you have no judgment and self-command; and yet you think you know best, and will not submit to be guided.”
Tom accuses Maggie of being impulsive and stubborn, refusing to accept his guidance.
Tom's criticism of Maggie's character.