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CXXXII: The Finesses of Bouderie explained

This chapter explores the playful yet intricate dynamics of bouderie (feigned sulking) between lovers, where every gesture—a sneeze, a garland, a word of affection—is misinterpreted or met with jealous suspicion, revealing the delicate bala

What happens

This chapter explores the playful yet intricate dynamics of bouderie (feigned sulking) between lovers, where every gesture—a sneeze, a garland, a word of affection—is misinterpreted or met with jealous suspicion, revealing the delicate balance of love and insecurity.

Themes in this chapter

  • Love and Marriage

    The chapter delves into the complexities of romantic love, where bouderie serves as both a test of affection and a means of deepening intimacy.

Characters to notice

  • Bouderie

    Personification of the sulking lover, whose finesses and jealous reactions drive the chapter's exploration of romantic tension.

  • Pallor

    Implied as the beloved whose actions (sneezing, wearing a garland) provoke the lover's bouderie.

Key passages

  • “She All that are women devour thee with their eyes, thou gallant! I shall have none of thy embrace.”

    She accuses him of being admired by all women and refuses his embrace out of jealousy.

    Illustrates the lover's immediate suspicion and use of bouderie to express possessiveness.

  • “I said to her, I love thee above all: and behold, she frowned at once asking, Above whom? and above whom?”

    When he declares his exclusive love, she responds with distrust, demanding to know whom he loves more.

    Highlights the irrational yet tender nature of bouderie, where even affirmations are met with doubt.

  • “I told her, We shall never part in this life: alack, her eyes at once filled with tears!”

    His vow of eternal togetherness causes her to cry, perhaps from overwhelming emotion or suspicion.

    Shows how bouderie can transform a promise into a source of sorrow.

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