Poetry · Chapter
XIX: Be Not Sad Because All Men explained
The speaker comforts a beloved, urging them not to be saddened by the world's preference for falsehood over truth.
What happens
The speaker comforts a beloved, urging them not to be saddened by the world's preference for falsehood over truth. The beloved is assured that others cannot truly dishonor them, as their own lives are filled with greater sorrow. The speaker calls for a proud response of denial to the world's tears.
Themes in this chapter
Love and Longing
The speaker's tender address and desire to soothe the beloved reflects deep affection and care.
Isolation and Connection
The beloved is set apart from a hostile world, yet finds solace in the speaker's words of unity.
Characters to notice
Key passages
“Be not sad because all men Prefer a lying clamour before you”
Do not be sorrowful because everyone else favors false noise over you.
The speaker acknowledges the world's unjust preference for deceit over the beloved.
“They are sadder than all tears; Their lives ascend as a continual sigh.”
Those people are more sorrowful than any tears; their lives are one long sigh.
The speaker reframes the world's judgment as a sign of their own deeper misery.
“Proudly answer to their tears: As they deny, deny.”
Respond to their weeping with pride: just as they deny you, you deny them.
The speaker urges the beloved to meet the world's denial with a proud, reciprocal denial.