Of Human Bondage · Chapter
LXXIII explained
Philip, deeply in love with Mildred, plans a trip to Paris with her and writes passionate letters while she is in Brighton with her baby.
What happens
Philip, deeply in love with Mildred, plans a trip to Paris with her and writes passionate letters while she is in Brighton with her baby. He passes his medical exam but feels disappointed when Mildred extends her stay, fearing his presence would be unwelcome.
Themes in this chapter
Love and Obsession
Philip's obsessive love for Mildred is evident in his detailed plans, passionate letters, and his fear of being a burden to her.
Suffering and Disillusionment
Philip experiences bitter disappointment when Mildred extends her stay, realizing she does not reciprocate his intensity of feeling.
Characters to notice
- Philip Carey
Deeply in love with Mildred, he plans a Paris trip, writes passionate letters, passes his exam, but feels insecure about visiting her in Brighton.
- Mildred Rogers
Recovers from childbirth, goes to Brighton with her baby, shows indifference to the child, enjoys socializing, and extends her stay despite Philip's feelings.
- Emil Miller
Mildred's former lover; she references him when arranging the Brighton boardinghouse and jokes about his lack of concern for the baby.
Key passages
“He had always a certain shyness in expressing himself by word of mouth, but he found he could tell her, pen in hand, all sorts of things which it would have made him feel ridiculous to say.”
Philip, usually reserved in speech, discovered that writing allowed him to openly share his deepest feelings without embarrassment.
Highlights Philip's emotional vulnerability and the liberating power of written expression in his relationship with Mildred.
“If she loved me one quarter as much as I love her she couldn't bear to stay away a day longer than necessary.”
Philip thinks that if Mildred loved him even a fraction as much as he loves her, she would not want to be apart from him any longer than needed.
Reveals Philip's growing awareness of the imbalance in their affection and his fear of rejection.