Of Human Bondage · Chapter
Chapter LXIX explained
Mildred returns to Philip, revealing that Emil Miller was already married and has abandoned her, pregnant and penniless.
What happens
Mildred returns to Philip, revealing that Emil Miller was already married and has abandoned her, pregnant and penniless. Philip, still deeply in love, offers financial support and tries to help her through the solicitor, but Mildred refuses to take money from Emil. Despite his lingering love, Philip is repulsed by the thought of a physical relationship with her after her affair. They dine together and go to a music-hall, and Philip neglects Norah Nesbit, sending her telegrams to avoid seeing her.
Themes in this chapter
Love and Obsession
Philip's obsessive love for Mildred persists despite her betrayal, leading him to support her financially and emotionally while repressing his own disgust.
Suffering and Disillusionment
Mildred's abandonment and Philip's anguish over her affair with a married man deepen his disillusionment with love and human nature.
Class and Social Mobility
Mildred's concern with appearing respectable (claiming her husband is an officer in India) and Philip's financial struggles highlight class anxieties and the precariousness of social standing.
Characters to notice
- Philip Carey
Philip provides financial and emotional support to Mildred after her abandonment, struggles with his lingering love and disgust, and neglects Norah.
- Mildred Rogers
Mildred returns to Philip, reveals Emil Miller's deception and abandonment, and accepts Philip's help while showing a new thoughtfulness.
- Norah Nesbit
Norah is neglected by Philip, who sends telegrams to avoid seeing her after Mildred's return.
- Emil Miller
Emil is revealed to have been married with three children; he abandoned Mildred after learning of her pregnancy.
Key passages
“I wouldn't take a penny from him. I'd rather starve.”
Mildred refuses to accept any financial help from Emil Miller, insisting on her pride.
Mildred's stubborn pride prevents her from seeking support from the man who abandoned her.
“I've got my pride to consider.”
Mildred justifies her refusal to take money from Emil by appealing to her sense of dignity.
Mildred's pride is a central motivation, even in her vulnerable state.
“You are a good friend, Philip.”
Mildred acknowledges Philip's kindness and support, but frames their relationship as friendship.
Mildred's words underscore the shift in their relationship, as Philip's romantic feelings are not reciprocated.
“I love you with all my heart.”
Philip confesses his enduring love for Mildred despite her betrayal.
Philip's love remains intense, even as he struggles with disgust over her affair.