North of Boston · Chapter
Home Burial explained
A husband and wife confront the raw grief of losing their child, as the wife accuses her husband of emotional coldness and he struggles to understand her pain, culminating in her threat to leave the house.
What happens
A husband and wife confront the raw grief of losing their child, as the wife accuses her husband of emotional coldness and he struggles to understand her pain, culminating in her threat to leave the house.
Themes in this chapter
Death and Mortality
The central theme of the chapter, as the couple grapples with the death of their child and the isolation it brings.
Communication and Misunderstanding
The husband and wife fail to communicate their grief, leading to accusations and emotional distance.
Characters to notice
- Unknown Narrator
The husband who speaks to his wife Amy, trying to understand her grief and prevent her from leaving.
- Amy
The grieving mother who accuses her husband of insensitivity and threatens to leave the house.
Key passages
“Three foggy mornings and one rainy day Will rot the best birch fence a man can build.”
A few days of bad weather can ruin even the best-built fence.
Amy bitterly recalls her husband's mundane remark after burying their child, highlighting his emotional detachment.
“Friends make pretence of following to the grave, But before one is in it, their minds are turned And making the best of their way back to life”
Friends pretend to accompany the dying to the end, but their thoughts quickly return to their own lives.
Amy expresses her belief that death is a solitary experience, and that others cannot truly share in grief.