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Mary Olivier: A Life · Chapter

Chapter XVII explained

Mary Olivier meets Maurice Jourdain, the French nephew of the Drapers, and forms a deep intellectual and emotional connection with him.

What happens

Mary Olivier meets Maurice Jourdain, the French nephew of the Drapers, and forms a deep intellectual and emotional connection with him. Their walks and conversations become a source of joy and understanding for Mary, who feels isolated from her family. Maurice listens to her thoughts about literature and philosophy, and they share a mutual appreciation for ideas. However, Mary learns she is to be sent to school, which she dreads, and Maurice expresses his own disillusionment with family and religion.

Themes in this chapter

  • Female Intellectual Ambition

    Mary's love for words and thoughts, and her desire to be understood, highlights her intellectual aspirations in a restrictive society.

  • Religious Doubt and Philosophical Search

    Maurice's atheism and Mary's engagement with philosophical ideas reflect a search for meaning beyond traditional religion.

  • Repression and Freedom

    Mary's dread of school and her secret imaginative life represent the tension between societal expectations and personal freedom.

Characters to notice

  • Mary Olivier

    Forms a deep intellectual bond with Maurice Jourdain, sharing her love of words and thoughts; dreads being sent to school.

  • Maurice Jourdain

    The French nephew who listens to Mary and shares her intellectual interests; reveals his atheism and family struggles.

  • Mamma

    Decides to send Mary to school, a decision Mary resents.

  • Mark Olivier

    Mentioned as the only other person who listens to Mary, and as a soldier in the Royal Artillery.

  • Jimmy

    Mentioned as Mark's friend and Mary's, now in Australia and unable to return.

Key passages

  • You’re the only person besides Mark who listens. There was Jimmy. But that was different. He didn’t know things. He’s a darling, but he doesn’t know things.

    Mary tells Maurice that he and Mark are the only ones who truly listen to her; Jimmy was dear but lacked understanding.

    Mary expresses her need for intellectual companionship.

  • The more you do for people the less they love you.

    Maurice observes that self-sacrifice often goes unappreciated.

    Maurice shares his cynical view on family and love.

  • I’m an atheist. I don’t believe their God exists. I hope he doesn’t.

    Maurice declares his atheism, hoping that the God his family believes in does not exist.

    Maurice reveals his religious doubts, a key theme.