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The Oldest Member tells a story about Ramsden Waters, a meek man who proposes to Eunice Bray after being paired with her in a mixed foursomes golf competition.

What happens

The Oldest Member tells a story about Ramsden Waters, a meek man who proposes to Eunice Bray after being paired with her in a mixed foursomes golf competition. On the course, Ramsden transforms into a confident, commanding golfer, surprising Eunice and asserting authority over her and her brother Wilberforce.

Themes in this chapter

  • Gender Roles and Relationships

    The chapter explores the tension between Ramsden's meek demeanor off the course and his commanding presence on it, challenging Eunice's expectations of male behavior.

  • The Pursuit of Excellence

    Ramsden's intense focus on winning the mixed foursomes reflects the golfer's quest for excellence, overriding social niceties.

  • Humor and Absurdity

    The absurdity of Ramsden's transformation and his stern treatment of Eunice and Wilberforce on the course provides comic contrast to his earlier timidity.

Characters to notice

  • Ramsden Waters

    A meek man who proposes to Eunice Bray after being paired with her in a mixed foursomes; on the golf course, he becomes confident and commanding.

  • Eunice Bray

    A beautiful young woman who learns golf from her admirers; she is paired with Ramsden in the mixed foursomes and is startled by his transformation on the course.

  • Wilberforce Bray

    Eunice's little brother who accompanies the pair during the round; Ramsden orders him to be quiet.

  • George Perkins

    A 16-handicap youth paired with Marcella Bingley; considered a weak opponent by Ramsden.

  • Marcella Bingley

    A weather-beaten female golfer with bobbed hair and strong wrists; she once appeared in the women's open championship and is a serious rival.

Key passages

  • She is a dear girl... a dear girl in every respect. But somehow⁠—I don't know⁠—when I see her playing golf I can't help thinking that woman's place is in the home.

    A young man expresses discomfort with his fiancée's lighthearted approach to golf, suggesting that women should focus on domestic roles.

    This sets up the chapter's exploration of gender expectations in golf.

  • What we've got to do is to play steadily. Don't try any fancy shots. Go for safety. Miss Bingley is a tough proposition, but George Perkins is sure to foozle a few, and if we play safe we've got 'em cold.

    Ramsden gives Eunice a confident, strategic plan for the match, surprising her with his assertiveness.

    Highlights Ramsden's transformation on the course.