At the Back of the North Wind · Chapter
XIX: Diamond’s Friends explained
Diamond reflects on the nature of friendship with his father, arguing that anyone can be a friend if you choose to be theirs.
What happens
Diamond reflects on the nature of friendship with his father, arguing that anyone can be a friend if you choose to be theirs. He meets a gentleman while talking to the crossing-sweeper girl, who gives him a card promising a reward when he learns to read. Diamond gives his penny to the girl and learns about her difficult home life with her grandmother and her friend cripple Jim.
Themes in this chapter
Compassion and Service
Diamond's selfless act of giving his penny to Nanny and his inclusive view of friendship demonstrate compassion and service to others.
Innocence and Wisdom
Diamond's innocent yet profound understanding of friendship—choosing to be a friend regardless of reciprocity—highlights his unique wisdom.
Characters to notice
- Diamond
Shows wisdom in defining friendship as a choice, gives his penny to the crossing-sweeper girl, and receives a gentleman's card promising a reward for learning to read.
- Father
Engages in a conversation with Diamond about friendship, initially skeptical but moved by Diamond's perspective.
- Nanny
The crossing-sweeper girl who talks with Diamond and the gentleman, reveals her difficult home life with her grandmother and her care for cripple Jim.
- Jim
Mentioned as a crippled boy in Paradise Row whom Nanny supports with food.
- Grannie
Nanny's grandmother, described as wicked and cruel, known for her swearing and neglect.
Key passages
“If I choose to be their friend, you know, they can't prevent me.”
Diamond argues that friendship is a choice he can make unilaterally, regardless of the other person's response.
Illustrates Diamond's philosophy of active, unconditional friendship.
“I've got a father, and mother, and little brother, and you've got nothing but a wicked old grannie. You may have my penny.”
Diamond gives his penny to the crossing-sweeper girl, recognizing her lack of family support.
Shows Diamond's generosity and empathy for those less fortunate.