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The Extravagance of Love explained

This chapter defends acts of extravagant love and beauty against the criticism of practical utility, using Mary's anointing of Jesus as a key example.

What happens

This chapter defends acts of extravagant love and beauty against the criticism of practical utility, using Mary's anointing of Jesus as a key example. It argues that beauty, generosity, and devotion have intrinsic value and are justified by love itself, not by utilitarian standards.

Themes in this chapter

  • Love and Generosity

    Explores how love expresses itself in extravagant, non-utilitarian acts, such as Mary's anointing and everyday sacrifices.

  • Sacrifice and Duty

    Contrasts bare duty with the overflow of love, arguing that true love goes beyond duty and is justified by its beauty.

Characters to notice

  • Jesus Christ

    Defends Mary's extravagant offering of ointment, vindicating the value of beauty and love over mere utility.

  • Mary

    Anoints Jesus with costly ointment, an act of love and devotion that Jesus praises as a memorial.

  • Judas

    Criticizes Mary's act as wasteful, but his protest is recorded as a negative example of valuing utility over love.

Key passages

  • Why was not this ointment sold for three hundred pence, and given to the poor?

    Why wasn't this perfume sold for a large sum and the money given to the poor?

    Judas's criticism of Mary's act, questioning the practical value of her offering.

  • Wherever this Gospel is preached, this that she had done shall be told as a memorial of her.

    Wherever the good news is proclaimed, her action will be remembered and honored.

    Jesus's promise that Mary's act of love would be celebrated forever.