# The Custom of the Country explained — The Return of the Native

> Chapter companion for The Return of the Native by Thomas Hardy.

## What happens

The chapter depicts a group of Egdon heath-dwellers gathered around a bonfire, discussing local gossip, marriage, and superstitions. They plan to serenade the newlyweds Thomasin Yeobright and Damon Wildeve, while reflecting on the nature of fire and its ancient, ritualistic significance.

## Themes in this chapter

### Nature and Landscape

The bonfire and the heath landscape are vividly described, emphasizing the primal connection between the people and their environment.

### Social Class and Ambition

The discussion of Wildeve's fall from engineer to innkeeper and Thomasin's modest wedding highlights class and ambition.

### Modernity vs. Tradition

The contrast between ancient fire rituals and contemporary gossip underscores the tension between old customs and modern life.

## Character check-ins

### Christian Cantle

Christian expresses his fears about ghosts and his own inadequacy, revealing his superstitious and timid nature.

### Grandfer Cantle

Grandfer Cantle is lively and boastful, eager to sing and join the festivities despite his age.

### Timothy Fairway

Fairway leads the conversation, proposing a song for the newlyweds and sharing a story about a man no woman would marry.

### Thomasin Yeobright

Thomasin is the subject of discussion as the newly married woman, with neighbors commenting on her marriage to Wildeve.

### Damon Wildeve

Wildeve is mentioned as the new husband of Thomasin, a former engineer who now keeps the Quiet Woman inn.

### Susan Nunsuch

Susan expresses disapproval of Thomasin's modest wedding and criticizes Wildeve.

## Key lines

> I am no drinker, as we know, but when the womenfolk and youngsters have gone home we can drop down across to the Quiet Woman, and strike up a ballet in front of the married folks’ door.

Fairway suggests that after the women and children leave, the men should go to the Quiet Woman inn and sing a song outside the newlyweds' door.

_This shows the communal custom of celebrating a marriage with music and drink._

> The ashes of the original British pyre which blazed from that summit lay fresh and undisturbed in the barrow beneath their tread.

The ancient burial mound beneath them still contains the ashes of the original bonfire lit there centuries ago.

_This connects the present bonfire to ancient rituals, emphasizing continuity._

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