# XIV explained — The Rector and The Doctor’s Family

> Chapter companion for The Rector and The Doctor’s Family by Margaret Oliphant.

## What happens

Nettie, impatient with Dr. Rider's passive acceptance of their separation, resolves to take Susan and the children to Australia. Miss Wodehouse suggests an arrangement that would allow Nettie to marry, but Nettie vehemently denies any intention to marry, even suspecting Mr. Chatham's motives. She insists her duty is to the children and prepares to leave Carlingford.

## Themes in this chapter

### Duty vs. Personal Inclination

Nettie chooses her duty to her sister's children over her own romantic desires, rejecting marriage.

### Gender Roles and Independence

Nettie asserts her independence by planning to emigrate and raise the children alone, defying expectations to marry.

### Family Obligation and Sacrifice

Nettie sacrifices her own happiness and potential marriage to care for Susan and the children.

## Character check-ins

### Nettie Underwood

Resolute and impatient, Nettie decides to take Susan and the children to Australia, rejecting any possibility of marriage.

### Miss Wodehouse

Gentle adviser who suggests Nettie make an arrangement to marry, but is firmly rebuffed.

### Susan Rider

Mentioned as delicate and discussing the journey with the Australian visitor.

### Dr. Edward Rider

Nettie scorns him for submitting to fate instead of proposing an arrangement to keep her.

### Richard Chatham

Suspected by Miss Wodehouse of courting Nettie, but Nettie dismisses the idea.

## Key lines

> If one must break one's heart, it is best to do it at once and have done with it.

Nettie believes it's better to endure heartbreak quickly rather than prolong the pain.

_Reflects her impatience with the drawn-out situation and her desire for resolution._

> Twenty thousand Chathams would not move me. I shall never marry anybody, if I live to be as old as—as you, or Methuselah, or anybody.

Nettie declares that no number of suitors, not even Mr. Chatham, could persuade her to marry.

_Shows her fierce independence and rejection of romantic expectations._

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