# I Am Disgraced and Shamed explained — The Prime Minister

> Chapter companion for The Prime Minister by Anthony Trollope.

## What happens

Arthur Fletcher becomes a constant visitor at Mr. Wharton's home, determined to renew his suit to Emily Lopez after a year has passed since her husband's death. He struggles with how to approach her, and after an awkward first meeting, he returns to find her alone and begins to plead his case.

## Themes in this chapter

### Marriage and Courtship

Arthur Fletcher's persistent courtship of Emily Lopez after her husband's death, and the social and familial pressures surrounding remarriage.

### Reputation and Scandal

Emily's shame and the avoidance of Lopez's name; the family's desire to forget the scandal of her marriage.

### Duty vs. Personal Desire

Emily's internal conflict between her duty to remain a widow and her feelings for Arthur Fletcher.

## Character check-ins

### Arthur Fletcher

Renews his suit to Emily after a year of mourning, visiting Manchester Square frequently and planning his approach.

### Emily Lopez

Returns to London after a year in the country, still in mourning and conflicted about her duty to remain a widow.

### Abel Wharton

Supports Arthur's suit, discusses Emily's reduced fortune due to Lopez, and expresses hope for their marriage.

### Mrs. Roby

Visits Emily after being pardoned, but her presence drives Arthur away; she is told not to use the name 'Mrs. Lopez'.

### Everett Wharton

Mentioned as having taken up with Wharton and becoming a magistrate, to Sir Alured's delight.

## Key lines

> It is not love, but a feeling of shame.

Mr. Wharton believes Emily's reluctance to remarry stems from shame over her past marriage, not lingering love for Lopez.

_Mr. Wharton explains Emily's state of mind to Arthur._

> Nothing but personal dislike can justify you in refusing to heal so many wounds.

Arthur plans to argue that only a personal aversion to him could excuse her from mending the hurt caused to her family and friends.

_Arthur's internal deliberation on how to persuade Emily._

> I will not have papa wounded.

Emily insists that her aunt avoid using the name 'Mrs. Lopez' to spare her father's feelings.

_Emily's response to Mrs. Roby's use of her married name._

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