# XIV explained — The Mother > Chapter companion for The Mother by Pearl S. Buck. ## What happens The mother struggles with her new daughter-in-law's quiet independence and different ways, feeling displaced in her own home. Meanwhile, her favoritism toward the younger son causes a violent confrontation between the brothers during the rice harvest, revealing the elder son's deep resentment. ## Themes in this chapter ### Family Conflict and Favoritism The mother's open favoritism toward the younger son fuels the elder son's bitterness, culminating in a violent outburst during the harvest. ### Gender Roles and Patriarchy The mother's loss of authority to her son's wife reflects the shifting power dynamics within the patriarchal household. ## Character check-ins ### The Mother Feels diminished and displaced by her son's wife; shows favoritism toward the younger son, which leads to a confrontation with the elder son. ### The Elder Son Becomes bitter and resentful of his mother's favoritism; violently beats his younger brother during the harvest. ### The Young Man The younger son, indulged by his mother, is beaten by his elder brother and runs away. ### The Woman The son's wife, dutiful and independent, quietly changes household ways, causing the mother's resentment. ## Key lines > Now there are not two women in this world who do the same task alike, and this the mother had not known, thinking all did as she did. The mother realized that every woman has her own way of doing things, a fact she had never considered before. _Highlights the mother's growing awareness of her daughter-in-law's individuality._ > From that day on the mother knew the two were masters in the house. The mother understood that her son and his wife now held the real authority in the household. _Marks a shift in family power dynamics._ > Yes, you keep the money, and I give you all we earn. I never take a penny for my own, not even to smoke a little pipe of any kind or take a bowl of wine or buy myself anything a young man might have and count it but his due. Yet you must promise him all I never had! The elder son accused his mother of hoarding his earnings while promising rewards to his younger brother that he himself never received. _Reveals the elder son's deep-seated resentment and sense of injustice._ ## Links - HTML: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_mother_se/chapters/xiv - Book: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_mother_se - All chapters: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_mother_se/chapters