# Mr. Dexter at Home explained — The Law and the Lady

> Chapter companion for The Law and the Lady by Wilkie Collins.

## What happens

Valeria visits Miserrimus Dexter's home and is subjected to his eccentricities. She views his bizarre paintings, which reflect his morbid imagination, and experiences his childish demands for pity. Dexter asks her to fetch a chair and screen so he can watch her walk, revealing that her gait reminds him of Eustace's first wife. He then engages her in conversation about the mystery of that wife's death, using embroidery to calm himself as she speaks.

## Themes in this chapter

### Madness and Rationality

Dexter's erratic behavior, childish demands, and grotesque paintings illustrate a mind teetering on the edge of madness, contrasting with Valeria's rational curiosity.

### Secrets and Deception

Valeria's hidden motive to uncover the truth about Eustace's first wife drives her interaction with Dexter, who himself harbors secrets.

### Gender Roles and Agency

Dexter's adoption of needlework as a calming activity subverts traditional gender roles, while Valeria must navigate his caprices to achieve her goals.

## Character check-ins

### Valeria

Visits Dexter's home, observes his paintings, and submits to his whims in hopes of gaining his confidence about Eustace's first wife.

### Miserrimus Dexter

Shows Valeria his grotesque paintings, demands pity in a childish manner, and uses her walking to evoke memories of Eustace's first wife.

### Ariel

Dexter's servant, who whistles for Valeria and vanishes into the kitchen.

### Eustace Macallan

Referenced indirectly through Dexter's comments about his first wife.

### Sarah

Referenced as Eustace's first wife, whose memory Dexter evokes through Valeria's walk.

## Key lines

> So! I was to be whistled for like a dog! And, worse still, there was no help for it but to submit like a dog.

Valeria feels humiliated at being summoned by a whistle, but realizes she has no choice but to obey.

_Highlights Valeria's frustration and powerlessness in Dexter's household._

> Dear Mrs. Valeria, I wanted to see you walk.

Dexter confesses that he asked Valeria to fetch items just to watch her walk, which reminded him of Eustace's first wife.

_Reveals Dexter's obsession with the deceased wife and his manipulative use of Valeria._

> Women wisely compose their minds, and help themselves to think quietly, by doing needlework. Why are men such fools as to deny themselves the same admirable resource?

Dexter defends his use of embroidery as a calming technique, questioning why men reject such a useful practice.

_Illustrates Dexter's unconventional views on gender roles._

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