# CXXV: Addressing One’s Own Heart explained — The Kural

> Chapter companion for The Kural by Thiruvalluvar.

## What happens

The chapter is a poignant internal monologue where the speaker addresses her own heart, lamenting the pain of separation from a beloved who seems indifferent. She questions the heart's foolishness in grieving for one who does not return love, contemplates bringing her eyes along if the heart goes to him, and oscillates between anger and feigned indifference. Ultimately, she realizes the beloved resides within herself, and harboring him only leads to further wasting away.

## Themes in this chapter

### Love and Marriage

The chapter delves into the anguish of unrequited love and the internal struggle between longing and pride, central to the theme of love and marriage.

### The Vanity of Worldly Life

The speaker's realization that the beloved is within herself and that harboring him leads to self-destruction underscores the futility and vanity of worldly attachments.

## Character check-ins

### Bouderie

The speaker's heart is personified and addressed throughout the chapter, embodying the emotional conflict of love and separation.

## Key lines

> Wouldst thou not think, O my Heart, and find out and tell me some remedy to cure me of this incurable disease?

Won't you, my Heart, think and discover a cure for this unbearable pain?

_The speaker implores her own heart to find a solution to her lovesickness._

> If thou go to him, my Heart, take these eyes also along with thee! For they devour me in their longing to look on him.

If you go to him, my Heart, bring my eyes too, because they torment me with their desire to see him.

_The speaker's eyes are personified as consuming her with longing, and she wishes to send them with her heart._

> Whom dost thou seek to join, O my Heart, when thou knowest that the beloved is seated within thy own self?

Who are you trying to unite with, my Heart, when you know the beloved resides inside you?

_The speaker realizes that the beloved is not external but exists within her own heart, making the search futile._

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