# XIX explained — The Getting of Wisdom > Chapter companion for The Getting of Wisdom by Henry Handel Richardson. ## What happens Laura endures complete social ostracism at school after being branded a liar, and the situation worsens when Chinky is expelled for theft, having claimed she stole to buy Laura a ring. Laura is now seen as a confederate. She counts down the days to Christmas, but a letter from Mother delays her return due to her brothers' illness, sending her and Pin to a seaside resort. There, Laura grows distant from Pin, who criticizes her changed behavior, leading to a bitter quarrel. Laura realizes she no longer fits in at home and decides she belongs at school despite her suffering. ## Themes in this chapter ### Truth, Lies, and Self-Deception Laura's reputation as a liar leads to her being blamed for Chinky's theft; she struggles to defend the difference between fabricating stories and stealing. Her own self-deception is evident in her continued fantasy-making on the beach. ### Social Conformity vs. Individuality Laura is ostracized for not conforming to the school's moral code; her individuality (lying, pride) marks her as an outsider. At home, she feels out of step with Pin's simple concerns, highlighting her alienation from both worlds. ### Family and Maternal Expectations Laura's relationship with Pin fractures as Pin accuses her of being wicked and blames school for the change. Laura's mother is a distant figure whose sewing work and authority loom over the quarrel, and Laura's plan to manipulate her mother reflects strained family dynamics. ## Character check-ins ### Laura Rambotham Ostracized at school after being labeled a liar; further implicated when Chinky steals a half-sovereign to buy her a ring. At the seaside, she quarrels with Pin and feels alienated from home, ultimately deciding she belongs at school. ### Pin Accompanies Laura to the seaside; chatters about home and Mother's sewing work, leading to a heated argument with Laura about truthfulness and behavior. She accuses Laura of being wicked and changed by school. ### Chinky Expelled from school for stealing half-a-sovereign from a roommate's purse; claims she took it to buy a ring for Laura, deepening Laura's disgrace. ### Maria Morell Mocks Laura when she tries to inquire about Chinky's disappearance, refusing to believe Laura's ignorance of the theft. ### Kate Horner Joins Maria in taunting Laura, calling her 'Sapphira' and refusing to share information about Chinky. ### Mother Mentioned in Laura's plan to beg not to return to school; writes to delay Laura's return due to the boys' sandy blight; her sewing work is discussed by Pin. ## Key lines > Thus Laura went to Coventry. Not that the social banishment she now suffered was known by that name. Laura was completely shunned by her peers, though they didn't call it 'Coventry'. _Introduces the theme of ostracism using the historical term 'Coventry'._ > She had been sampled, tested, put on one side. Her schoolmates had judged her, found her wanting, and cast her out. _Summarizes Laura's social rejection after her lies were exposed._ > Chinky had been dismissed⁠—privately because she was a boarder⁠—from the school. Her crime was: she had taken half-a-sovereign from the purse of one of her roommates. Chinky was expelled for stealing a half-sovereign from a roommate's purse, though the school handled it quietly to avoid scandal. _Key event that deepens Laura's disgrace._ > she could not get her enemies to grasp the abysmal difference between merely making up a story about people, and laying hands on others’ property Laura couldn't convince anyone that inventing stories was fundamentally different from stealing. _Highlights Laura's frustration with the moral equivalence others draw between lying and theft._ > Home was, alas! no longer the snug nest in which she was safe from the slings and shanghais of the world. Laura realized that home no longer felt like a safe haven from life's troubles. _Reflects Laura's growing alienation from her family._ > she fell into the habit of making up might-have-been, of narrating to herself how things would have fallen out had her fictions been fact Laura escaped her unhappiness by daydreaming about how events would have unfolded if her lies had been true. _Shows Laura's continued reliance on fantasy as a coping mechanism._ ## Links - HTML: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_getting_of_wisdom_se/chapters/xix - Book: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_getting_of_wisdom_se - All chapters: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/the_getting_of_wisdom_se/chapters