# LXI explained — Tao Te Ching

> Chapter companion for Tao Te Ching by Laozi.

## What happens

This chapter uses the metaphor of a low-lying stream and the stillness of the female to illustrate how a great state can attract and unite smaller states through humility and condescension. It argues that both large and small states achieve their desires—the great to nourish and unite, the small to be received and serve—but the great must learn to abase itself.

## Themes in this chapter

### The Soft Overcoming the Hard

The female overcomes the male by stillness, illustrating how softness and abasement lead to dominance.

### Sage Rulership and Governance

The chapter advises rulers of great states to practice condescension and humility to unite and nourish smaller states.

## Key lines

> What makes a great state is its being (like) a low-lying, down-flowing (stream);—it becomes the centre to which tend (all the small states) under heaven.

A great state's power comes from its humility, like a low-lying stream that naturally draws all smaller states toward it.

_The metaphor of the low-lying stream emphasizes humility as the source of attraction and unity._

> Thus it is that a great state, by condescending to small states, gains them for itself; and that small states, by abasing themselves to a great state, win it over to them.

A large state wins over small states by lowering itself, while small states gain favor by humbling themselves before the large state.

_Mutual abasement leads to mutual benefit, but the great state must take the lead in humility._

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