# XI explained — Man and Wife

> Chapter companion for Man and Wife by Wilkie Collins.

## What happens

Hester Dethridge recounts the four days following her husband's death, describing her lack of emotion, the inquest that ruled it natural causes, and her vow of silence after a vision commanding her to live a separate, silent life.

## Themes in this chapter

### Suffering and Resilience

Hester endures the psychological torment of her deed and the dread of divine punishment, yet finds a way to continue through a self-imposed silent life.

### Hypocrisy of Society

Hester's fear of bringing disgrace to her 'respectable family' outweighs her impulse to confess, highlighting societal pressure to maintain appearances over truth.

## Character check-ins

### Hester Dethridge

Narrates the chapter, describing her actions and feelings after her husband's death and her decision to become mute.

## Key lines

> I had a short sleep that night, and a dream, in which I did the deed over again.

She slept briefly and dreamed of repeating the act.

_Illustrates her recurring trauma and guilt._

> I was commanded, in a vision, to open the Bible, and vow on it to set my guilty self apart among my innocent fellow-creatures from that day forth; to live among them a separate and silent life

In a vision, she was instructed to swear on the Bible to isolate herself and live silently among others.

_Describes the origin of her vow of silence._

## Links

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