# Choosing the Useful Over the Agreeable explained — Short Works

> Chapter companion for Short Works by Epictetus.

## What happens

A brief, direct maxim advising that the selection of a physician or a friend should be based on their utility and benefit, not on their pleasantness or agreeableness.

## Themes in this chapter

### Practical Ethics and Self-Discipline

The chapter provides a practical rule for living: prioritize what is genuinely beneficial (useful) over what is merely pleasing (agreeable) in critical relationships, emphasizing disciplined choice.

### Moderation and Simplicity

The advice cuts through social complexity and the temptation of superficial charm, advocating for a simple, clear standard of value—utility—in personal and professional alliances.

## Key lines

> You ought to choose both physician and friend not the most agreeable, but the most useful.

Select a doctor or a companion based on their practical benefit and effectiveness, not on how pleasant or likable they are.

_A concise Stoic principle applying to personal and professional judgment, stressing substance over superficial appeal._

## Links

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