# Of Disputation or Discussion explained — Discourses > Chapter companion for Discourses by Epictetus. ## What happens Epictetus criticizes the lack of practical skill in applying Stoic dialectic, contrasting it with Socrates' method of guiding an opponent to self-evident truth through natural notions rather than technical jargon. He warns that confronting powerful Romans about their neglect of the soul is dangerous, recounting his own experience of being threatened with violence. ## Themes in this chapter ### Rationality and Self-Examination Socrates' method forces interlocutors to examine their own natural notions and contradictions. ### Social Duty and Friendship The philosopher's duty to guide others gently, like a guide leading a lost traveler, rather than ridiculing them. ## Character check-ins ### Socrates Exemplar of gentle, effective disputation; compelled adversaries to bear witness and avoided abuse. ### Epictetus Narrator who once admired Socratic questioning but learned of its dangers at Rome. ### Xenophon Author of the Symposium, cited as a source for Socrates' skill in ending quarrels. ## Key lines > Now a guide, when he has found a man out of the road leads him into the right way: he does not ridicule or abuse him and then leave him. Do you also show the illiterate man the truth, and you will see that he follows. A guide who finds someone lost gently puts them back on the path instead of mocking them. Similarly, you should teach the ignorant person the truth, and they will follow. _Epictetus uses the analogy of a guide to illustrate the proper Socratic approach to teaching._ > Here comes the danger that in the first place he may say, 'What is this to you, my good man, who are you?' Next, if you persist in troubling him, there is danger that he may raise his hands and give you blows. If you question a powerful Roman about his soul, he may first dismiss you, and if you persist, he might physically attack you. _Epictetus warns of the real risks of confronting the Roman elite with Socratic questioning._ ## Links - HTML: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/discourses_se/chapters/xii-of-disputation-or-discussion - Book: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/discourses_se - All chapters: https://www.betterreads.online/discover/discourses_se/chapters