# Letter 326: Mr. Lovelace, to John Belford, Esq. explained — Clarissa

> Chapter companion for Clarissa by Samuel Richardson.

## What happens

Lovelace writes to Belford, reflecting on the possibility of marrying Clarissa. He muses on love, marriage as the 'grave of love,' and the social advantages a husband gains. He boasts of reconciling with his relations and threatens Belford with death to keep secrets. He plans to have his cousins Montague visit Mrs. Howe to enlist Miss Howe's help, and he intends to advertise for Clarissa.

## Themes in this chapter

### Libertinism and Morality

Lovelace's cynical view of marriage as the 'grave of love' and his libertine justifications for marital freedoms.

### Deception and Appearance vs. Reality

Lovelace's plans to use marriage as a 'cloak' for faults and his manipulation of appearances to reconcile with his relations.

## Character check-ins

### Robert Lovelace

Author of the letter; reflects on marriage, love, and his schemes.

### John Belford

Recipient of the letter; Lovelace threatens him to keep secrets.

### Clarissa Harlowe

Lovelace's intended spouse; he plans to find and marry her.

### Anna Howe

Mentioned as a potential advocate for Clarissa; Lovelace fears her vengeance.

### Miss Charlotte Montague

To set out with Miss Patty Montague to Mrs. Howe's to engage Miss Howe's help.

## Key lines

> Love, like some self-propagating plants, or roots, (which have taken strong hold in the earth) when once got deep into the heart, is hardly ever totally extirpated, except by matrimony indeed, which is the grave of love, because it allows of the end of love.

Love is like a deeply rooted plant that can only be killed by marriage, which ends love.

_Lovelace expresses his cynical view that marriage destroys love._

> A husband is a charming cloak, a fig-leaved apron for a wife: and for a lady to be protected in liberties, in diversions, which her heart pants after—and all her faults, even the most criminal, were she to be detected, to be thrown upon the husband, and the ridicule too; a charming privilege for a wife!

A husband serves as a convenient cover for a wife's faults and desires, allowing her to shift blame and ridicule onto him.

_Lovelace sarcastically describes the social advantages of marriage for a woman._

> What a punishment should this come out to be, upon myself too, that all this while I have been plundering my own treasury?

It would be ironic if my schemes end in marriage, as I would have been harming my own interests all along.

_Lovelace reflects on the potential irony of his plots leading to marriage._

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