# Letter 206: Lord M. to Robert Lovelace, Esq. explained — Clarissa

> Chapter companion for Clarissa by Samuel Richardson.

## What happens

Lord M. writes to Lovelace expressing his hope that Lovelace will soon marry Clarissa and reform his rakish ways. He offers generous settlements, including a choice of estates and a thousand pounds a year, and advises Lovelace on both private and public conduct. Lord M. also conveys the support of Lady Sarah and Lady Betty, and urges Lovelace to seek a parliamentary seat and live virtuously.

## Themes in this chapter

### Family Obligation and Rebellion

Lord M. urges Lovelace to reconcile with Clarissa's family and fulfill his familial duties as a husband and father.

### Libertinism and Morality

Lord M. admonishes Lovelace's past libertine behavior and encourages moral reform through marriage.

### Class and Social Reputation

The letter emphasizes the importance of public conduct, parliamentary ambition, and the family's social standing.

## Character check-ins

### Robert Lovelace

Recipient of the letter; Lord M. advises him to marry Clarissa and reform his behavior.

### Clarissa Harlowe

Referred to as the 'fine lady' and 'dear niece' by Lord M., who praises her writing and offers her a settlement.

### Lord M.

Author of the letter; expresses his desire for Lovelace's marriage and reformation, and offers financial support.

### Lady Betty Lawrance

Mentioned as joining in compliments to Clarissa and eager to celebrate the wedding.

### Lady Sarah Sadleir

Mentioned as joining in compliments to Clarissa and eager to celebrate the wedding.

### Miss Charlotte Montague

Mentioned as joining in compliments to Clarissa.

## Key lines

> It is a long lane that has no turning.

Every difficult situation eventually changes.

_Lord M. uses a proverb to suggest that Lovelace's wild ways will come to an end._

> No man is always a fool, every man is sometimes.

Everyone makes mistakes at times, but no one is foolish forever.

_Lord M. advises Lovelace that his follies should now cease._

> Worth is best known by want!

A person's true value is recognized when they are no longer present.

_Lord M. reflects on the loss of Lovelace's aunt._

> God send me a friend, that may tell me of my faults: if not, an enemy, and he will.

It is better to have someone who will point out your mistakes, even if they are an enemy.

_Lord M. justifies his frank advice to Lovelace._

> The more noble anyone is, the more humble.

True nobility is accompanied by humility.

_Lord M. encourages Lovelace to be humble._

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