# XIII explained — Analects

> Chapter companion for Analects by Confucius.

## What happens

The philosopher Yû discusses the importance of making agreements according to what is right, showing respect according to propriety, and choosing proper persons as guides and masters.

## Themes in this chapter

### Ritual and Propriety

Yû emphasizes showing respect according to what is proper to avoid shame and disgrace.

### Reciprocity

The idea of making agreements according to what is right and leaning on proper persons reflects reciprocal relationships.

## Character check-ins

### Yû Zo

The philosopher Yû speaks on the principles of rightness, propriety, and choosing proper companions.

## Key lines

> When agreements are made according to what is right, what is spoken can be made good.

If you base your promises on what is just, you can keep your word.

_Yû highlights the importance of aligning agreements with righteousness._

> When respect is shown according to what is proper, one keeps far from shame and disgrace.

Showing respect in a fitting manner keeps you away from embarrassment and dishonor.

_Propriety in respect protects one's dignity._

> When the parties upon whom a man leans are proper persons to be intimate with, he can make them his guides and masters.

If you rely on people who are suitable for close association, you can learn from them as mentors.

_Choosing the right companions is essential for personal growth._

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